Mother-In-Law smokes weed around her children. Problem?

Although you cant undo the past, you certainly can influence the future. Do not let this go without a fight. If she is blazing with her own children in the house, I would have to believe that she most certainly will be doing it while she is caring for your child. Tell your husband that he really needs to pull his head out of his *&^ and see the light! If it had no effect on her, why would she bother to do it? You cant stop her from smoking, but you dont have to subject your child to the potential dangers of her being high either. As far as not affecting your husband growing up. I strongly disagree with his esment of the situation. He is willing to let his child stay with someone under the influence, and thinks that it is ok? You are the mom, and I get the impression you have your head screwed on straight and know the right thing to do. Time to put your foot down, for the sake of your child.